Craft Your Wings and Embrace the Present

Nov 4, 2023 | Personal Growth

As I reflect on the 17 titles I read in 2024, a few themes emerge that encapsulate my journey of growth this year. Many of these books encouraged me to expand my understanding of coaching maturity—to examine which of my own perspectives were being tested and to build the courage to thoughtfully challenge others’ thinking.

Another significant focus was coaching supervision, where I explored frameworks, techniques, and insights that could enrich the quality of my work with colleagues. These readings provided inspiration for elevating the reflective spaces I enable to others.

Finally, there were also books that introduced new tools, techniques, and approaches. These resources sparked creativity, encouraging me to consider how they might be applied in unique and impactful ways in my coaching and supervision practice.

I’ve always enjoyed the experience of holding a book in my hands, underlining what stands out to me, using different colors. This process helps me reflect on what I’ve read and revisit the ideas that resonate most. I was asked by several colleagues to share what I read and some recommendations, so for each book, I took time to review what I’ve highlighted, allowing me to capture and share the key insights that inspire, challenge, or shape my thinking.
Each book on this list contributed and made 2024 – a year of learning.  I’m excited to share these reflections  while looking forward to the plans I’m already setting for 2025 – which could be found in the bottom of this list. 🙂

What holds you back from taking that first step? Why not start acting?

Sometimes, coaching sessions lead to profound insights about freedom and the genuine desire to initiate change.
I recall a fantastic poem by the Serbian writer Miroslav Antic, a part of his book “Perfection of Fire.”

The trouble lies in it,” as the birds in my dream said,
“We always entangle ourselves in the same conversations”.

It’s a passion similar to the game of time,
There’s neither an end nor a beginning.

Why do you bother thinking about who you are?
Instead of crafting wings for yourself? And doing it NOW.

Contemplating the art of flight is perfectly pointless.
Every moment is lived through flight, and it’s resolute.

Stop consecutively exploding in dreams.
Utilize the remaining awake time to prove that you’re here – present.

As one of my clients concluded our recent session with a message to himself:
“Stop complaining,
Start acting!”

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